Adventures

Yes, I really do these things. Yes, my partners really enjoy them. On some level.

Bi and Poly

Can someone bi and poly live monogamously? A friend of mine is looking for experiences and viewpoints on the issue now. I’ve always been bisexual; my first-grade crushes were a girl called Robin and a boy called Stephen. Perhaps because…

Are Toybags Necessary?

And now, a word from an old friend: With all due respect, Mistress, do you really need all this stuff just to get off? And if so, what does it say about the role of industrial production in sex? How…

Types of Scene

Doing a demo might as well not be a scene at all, in terms of my sexual arousal. It’s pure expertise, which has its own keen intellectual pleasure, but no visceral lust, no emotional involvement. One exception was the knifeplay…

Live Nude Safety Notes

It had been ages since I had a chance to play with a boy. It’s been only twice in the past three years, both times co-Topping a seriously masochistic guysub who belonged to a friend. Somehow that’s different, though. Karen…

Suck, Sex, Swallow

Do Dommes ever have regular intercourse? Do they do fellatio? These seem kind of undignified, maybe even subby. Honey, Dommes do what we damned well please, and we don’t worry what someone else thinks of our pleasures. Yes, I personally…

Packing the Toybag

Percussion Toys A weight-lifter’s glove (pads the palm while leaving the fingers free — makes for very thuddy spanking and lets me hit as hard as I like while doing no damage) Vampire gloves (yes, I use these spiky leather…