BDSM: The Kink

Queer Youth in Trouble

Please remember, if you are an LGBT child or teen in need of help, the National Runaway Switchboard at 1-800-RUNAWAY can help you. The Ali Forney Center has a local and national LGBT youth online resource guide.

Here’s The Story Behind 20-Year Old’s Secretly Recorded Coming Out Viral Video – The New Civil Rights Movement

Erotica Reading Saturday Night!

I’m reading an erotic story at the Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco this Saturday night, August 30.

Leather, Lace & Lust: An Evening Of Erotic Storytelling and Sexual Merriment

Come one, come all* to an evening of lusty literature by many of the best erotica writers in the Bay Area!

From the tempting tease of delicate lace to the steamy heat of hardcore leather, these authors and performers will amuse, delight, and most of all excite you in all kinds of new and provocative ways; This is an evening of witty, carnal, and provocative literary endeavors that will tickle just about every kind of fancy, a festival of playful sensual fiction that will make you laugh, cry, and get that oh-so-special tingly feeling in your nether-regions.

In other words, a night of kick-ass erotica performed by ass-kicking writers!

Our featured performers include:

Suz deMello, a.k.a Sue Swift, is a best-selling, award-winning author of seventeen romance novels in several subgenres, including erotica, comedy, historical, paranormal, mystery and suspense, plus a number of short stories and non-fiction articles on writing. Molly Weatherfield: “Twenty years ago, a mild-mannered computer programmer decided to spend some quality time with her erotic fantasy life, and Carrie’s Story – BDSM for smart girls – was born.” Mistress Lorelei Powers is a well-known bi poly sadist and Domme. She is the author of several BDSM classics, including On Display, The Mistress Manual, and Charm School for Sissy Maids. Blake C. Aarens is an author, poet, screenwriter, playwright, and a Black Girl Nerd. Jean Marie Stine is the author of a number of pioneering works of erotica published in the late 1960 and early 1970s, beginning with Season of the Witch in 1968, which was filmed as the motion picture Synapse. Her erotic short stories and novelettes have been collected as “Trans-sexual: Fiction for Gender Queers.” A.M. Davis is a poet, artist and novelist who lives in Oakland, California. Her first novel, You Were Always Waiting For This Moment to Arise, as well as her first poetry collection, Six Lifetimes of Love, will be published in late 2014. M.Christian is a recognized master of erotica with more than 400 stories in such anthologies as Best American Erotica, Best Gay Erotica, Best Lesbian Erotica, Best Bisexual Erotica, Best Fetish Erotica and many others.

Saturday, August 30th, 2014 The Center For Sex And Culture 1349 Mission St, San Francisco, CA 94103 Doors at 6PM, Event starts at 7PM Admission: $10 (via Imagination Is Intelligence With An Erection: Leather, Lace & Lust: An Evening Of Erotic Storytelling and Sexual Merriment)

Mary Tyler Moore, Dominatrix

Mary Tyler Moore, Dominatrix. Dick Van Dyke, submissive. Annie Leibowitz for Vanity Fair, 1995. (via Pin by John MacDonald on Leibovitz | Pinterest)

Cleis Ebook Steals, $2.99 each!

Cleis Ebook Steals, $2.99 each!

cleispress:

A whole bunch of our books are on steep discount for anyone with an ereader! Nab these puppies before they disappear.

Erotica:

  • Cowboy Lust by Delilah Devlin ($15.95) now $2.99 (Nook) (Kindle)
  • Playing With Fire by Alison Tyler ($15.95) now $2.99 (Nook) (Kindle)
  • Erotic Travel…

I haven’t published with Cleis, so I won’t make any money if you buy these. But you might have fun if you do.

8 Steps Undocumented Sexual Assault Survivors Can Take

8 Steps Undocumented Sexual Assault Survivors Can Take

Travel Tips for Perverts

Anonymous:

Hi, I was wondering if you knew whether one could bring a collar and cuffs (there are metal buckles and D-rings) on a plane in their carry-on luggage if they weren’t checking any bags. Have you tried it? Thank you!

pervocracy:

It’s certainly not against TSA regulations to have those things, but I have had a security guy literally call his buddies over to “get a load of this” when I’ve had sex/BDSM related items in my luggage.  He did let everything on on the plane, though.  Other times the TSA has been cool.

So (at least in the US), the answer is that you won’t get arrested or have your stuff thrown out, but they might be a little bit creepy at you, and whether you want to check the bag or not is up to how much that would bother you. 

BDSM, travel tips, travel tips for perverts

Consensually, Please

How to make boys really nervous. Although there are better spots to hold a knife than his neck. (via Pin by Danne Gerous on Totally Awesome | Pinterest)

Sex Still Spoken Here: The Erotic Reading Circle Anthology! | Indiegogo

Sex Still Spoken Here: The Erotic Reading Circle Anthology! | Indiegogo

Today’s the last day to make this fabulous anthology happen.

REVIEW: Prisoner by Lia Silver | Dear Author

REVIEW: Prisoner by Lia Silver | Dear Author

liasilvershifter:

Dear Author gives a lovely, thoughtful review to Prisoner (Werewolf Marines)!

The best part is that the story just isn’t one I’ve read a lot before. It surprised me and kept me entertained.  I’d recommend it to those who like shifter stories but also for anyone who is looking for a different kind of hero and heroine than currently dominates the market.

Excellent writer — highly recommended!

BDSM Toys for Sale

Have your own private BDSM party complete with bondage, medical play, and more. I’m selling all these toys: brand new, never used, clean, and ready to give you and your partners the pleasure you deserve.

Wrist and ankle cuffs in padded leather (not locking)

Wrist and ankle cuffs in padded leather (not locking)

NEVER USED: Padded Black Leather Wrist and Ankle Cuffs

These Madame S padded leather cuffs (wrist and ankle) are designed for heavy-duty usage. Sized for average women or petite men. Comfortable, alluring, and sturdy, they will be beloved toys for years to come. Their price $159.90. $80 for both pairs

Wrist cuffs: Almost 3 inches wide. For wrists up to 10 inches. Two D-rings for attachments. Does not lock. Ankle cuffs: Almost 3 inches wide. For ankles up to 14 inches. Two D-rings for attachments. Does not lock.

 

Sturdy, easy-to-use hogtie clip

Sturdy, easy-to-use hogtie clip

NEVER USED: The Fastest Hogtie in the West

This sturdy device (made by Mr S) makes hogtying a snap — literally! The four leather straps on a solidly welded ring attach instantly to the D-rings on wrist and ankle cuffs for a swift, reliable hogtie. I’m sure your wicked imagination can come up with other uses. Price tag says $34.95. Only $15!

Long, soft, leather bondage mitts

Long, soft, leather bondage mitts

NEVER USED: Long, Soft, Black Leather Lace-Up Bondage Mitts

What could be sexier than the classic combination of leather and steel? Designed for a slim woman or a very small man. These superlative mitts come from JT’s Stockroom, where they cost $252. This pair of unworn gloves? Just $150.

JT’s site says:

These lace-up bondage sleeves each have three large D-rings on 1½” heavy leather buckling straps for attaching any part of the arm to the body, down to the sides, behind the back, to bondage furniture or anything else you can think of.

Our gloves are special because they have an inner flap that fills any gaps between the laces, without bunching. Buckles and lacing allow gloves to expand in diameter, fitting a wide range of arm sizes with inescapable security. They are 26″ long from fingertip to the top of the sleeve.

Small/Medium Wrist – 8½” Elbow – 9″ – 12½” Bicep – 10½” – 17½” Length – 17″

 

Stainless steel dental gag in open position

Stainless steel dental gag in open position

 

NEVER USED: Stainless Steel Dental Gag

If sadistic dentists make you drool, you have to buy this luscious medical/dental fantasy toy. Six inches long, it ratchets open in increments up to 2 inches. Imagine what you can do while your sub is open-mouthed and drooling. Extreme Restraints, $24.95 (marked down from $32). Just $15.

 

 

 

Buy them all–a $225 value–for $175, and I’ll throw in a delightfully wicked little cane. Remember, with canes smaller means nastier. How to Buy

Email me at MsLorelei at Mistressmanual dot com. I accept credit cards via PayPal. If you live in the San Francisco Bay Area, we can probably arrange to meet somewhere. If you’re from further afield, I’ll get an estimate of shipping cost. Sorry, I cannot ship outside the USA.

I’ll update the site as often as possible to reflect whether pieces have been sold.