Perverts’ Dictionary
Collective Nouns
A friend asked what would be the collective noun for a group of gay men. I responded:
I think it depends on various factors:
a fist of otherwise unspecified gay men a star of twinks a pelt of bears a cruise or a hankie of gay bars a tosca of opera queens a roundup or a lasso of gay cowboys
Same with lesbians:
a rouge of femmes a bench (shortened from workbench) of butches a daddy or a diesel of dykes a scoop of earth mothers a lick or a fist of lesbians
Also:
a quirk or quark of queers a cadre of LGBTQ activists a buffet of bisexuals (waffle is also used, but may be considered disparaging) a kate of genderqueers
For any of us, gay, lesbian, bi, trans, queer:
a family of lovers
Goddamn it. A *family*. Is that so complicated?
C’est Moi!
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