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Savagely Average and Other Kinks

Is there such a thing as a normal woman fetish? Sadly, my unending lust for women in their natural state is in fact considered a special interest now, if not exactly a fetish.  By “natural state” I don’t mean naked,…

C’est Moi!

Hello My orientation is bisexual, dominant, feminist, grrl, leather, ma’am, masochist, mistress, polyamorous, queer, sadist, soft butch, switch, woman What’s yours? Bookmark on Delicious Digg this post Recommend on Facebook share via Reddit Share with Stumblers Tumblr it Tweet about…

Sexual Sovereignty

Inspiring words from the strong, beautiful, and smart Hanne Blank: Sexual sovereignty: The only crown fit to be worn by the rebel, the outcast, the heretic, the renegade, the in-betweener, the I-don’t-know-and-you-don’t-either, the one who takes their half out of…

Quiz Silliness

You scored as Sweet. Sweet 100% Violent 94% Hot 94% Soft 69% Exciting 50% Wet 38% Awkward 13% Shy 13% What is your sexual style? created with QuizFarm.com Bookmark on Delicious Digg this post Recommend on Facebook share via Reddit…

Mmmm, Knives

Take the quiz: “Blades!” Ritual Dagger You have a spiritual sense of ritual significance in your actions. You are deliberate and divine. Bookmark on Delicious Digg this post Recommend on Facebook share via Reddit Share with Stumblers Tumblr it Tweet…

I Think I’ve Found My New Sig Line

“What looks and feels like love to me would, I promise you, leave you sexually, emotionally, and spiritually traumatized.” –Dan Savage Bookmark on Delicious Digg this post Recommend on Facebook share via Reddit Share with Stumblers Tumblr it Tweet about…

Significant Changes

Earlier this year I started on a new adventure — a romantic and sexual relationship with Siegfried Volsung, my first new vanilla romance in nearly a quarter of a century. My spice thought I was insane for trying; they made…

Bi and Poly

Can someone bi and poly live monogamously? A friend of mine is looking for experiences and viewpoints on the issue now. I’ve always been bisexual; my first-grade crushes were a girl called Robin and a boy called Stephen. Perhaps because…

No Surprises Here

Bondage movie! You’re into BSDM (Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission) and chances are, you’re fond of whips, chains, harnesses, and tight leather outfits. You like to mix a little pain with a LOT of pleasure, baby! What kind of…

Sexual Quizzes from Emode.com

Lorelei, your sexual personality is Zeta-ETDN-10. Your sexual personality is determined by your sexual persona (Zeta), 4 sexual scales (Emotional/Physical, Look/Touch, Daring/Modest, Verbal/Non-verbal), and your libido score (10). As a Zeta, the high degree of confidence you feel around your…