Anonymous: Hi, I was wondering if you knew whether one could bring a collar and cuffs (there are metal buckles and D-rings) on a plane in their carry-on luggage if they weren’t checking any bags. Have you tried it? Thank…
Safety
Fasten your seatbelts. It’s going to be a kinky night.
Violating Consent
But some Dom/mes aren’t satisfied with mere surrender. They like to violate boundaries: push a sub to do things that are past their hard limits, do things that might be destructive or leave unwanted lasting emotional or physical damage. They like to violate consent.
The Word on Safewords
What safewords can and can’t do. The one time playing as a sub I had to safeword out of a scene, I was not capable of saying the safeword. I wasn’t gagged (in which case it would have been tapping…
Be Careful Playing
I know a number of people who have kidnap fantasies — I do myself, but from the top. (Of course.) But you always have to be prepared for the police to take an interest. Naked Kidnap Fantasy Has Police Scrambling…
Live Nude Safety Notes
It had been ages since I had a chance to play with a boy. It’s been only twice in the past three years, both times co-Topping a seriously masochistic guysub who belonged to a friend. Somehow that’s different, though. Karen…