BDSM: The Kink

All about BDSM: bondage and discipline Dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.

Cautiously Optimistic

A Psychology Today blogger doesn’t actually condemn BDSM. Maybe that’s not quite the breakthrough you were hoping for. But the piece identifies some of the issues with mainstream media’s coverage of kinky practices. The blogger, identified only by initials, also…

I Can Haz Fetishez?

NSFW: LOLkink. Bookmark on Delicious Digg this post Recommend on Facebook share via Reddit Share with Stumblers Tumblr it Tweet about it Subscribe to the comments on this post Bookmark in Browser Tell a friend

Kinky Comic Books

The comic book art of the golden years was filled with sadomasochistic imagery. (Wonder Woman’s golden lasso, anyone?) That’s no surprise to anyone. But the fact that Joe Shuster, co-creator of Superman, illustrated an entire run of BDSM pr0n ……

REVIEW: Perverts Put Out

Perverts Put Out is an occasional series of readings held in San Francisco. It showcases hot erotic stories, poetry, and dance from some of the best performers working in the genre today. Saturday night, I got to see some astonishing…

Collective Nouns

A friend asked what would be the collective noun for a group of gay men. I responded: I think it depends on various factors: a fist of otherwise unspecified gay men a star of twinks a pelt of bears a…

Support Your Local Hero of the Revolution

Our community has a tradition of caring for one another in practical ways as well as emotionally. Now one of the best writers we have needs help. Patrick Califia has had a heart attack. He doesn’t have health insurance. Patrick’s…

The Word on Safewords

What safewords can and can’t do. The one time playing as a sub I had to safeword out of a scene, I was not capable of saying the safeword. I wasn’t gagged (in which case it would have been tapping…

Why, Yes, It’s Rock-Hard

scroll down! But will it fit in my strap-on? Link courtesy beatgoddess Bookmark on Delicious Digg this post Recommend on Facebook share via Reddit Share with Stumblers Tumblr it Tweet about it Subscribe to the comments on this post Bookmark…

Amusing Juxtapositions

In the Mistress bath (as opposed to the master bath or the housepet bath), amid the usual stacks of books and toiletries, lie a copy of the Greek New Testament and a double-ended dildo. Bookmark on Delicious Digg this post…

Today’s Horoscope

“Share your wisdom. Take someone along for the lavish, extravagant limo ride.” Heh-heh-heh. Some of my nearest and dearest know it’s not just wisdom I share on limo rides. Yes, I need to post about Folsom, but not tonight, mes…