BDSM: The Kink

All about BDSM: bondage and discipline Dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.

Celebrate Harvey Milk Day

Happy birthday, dear Harvey Milk. You still give us hope. I am celebrating with tickets to Mollena‘s one-woman show, 69Stories. Not only is she a brilliant writer/performer, she is the 2010 International Ms. Leather. Go forth and be as queer,…

Savagely Average and Other Kinks

Is there such a thing as a normal woman fetish? Sadly, my unending lust for women in their natural state is in fact considered a special interest now, if not exactly a fetish.  By “natural state” I don’t mean naked,…

Geek Sex and Vice Versa

Definition: A geek is a person who cares as much or more for facts, gadgets, books, or ideas as for people. Zie may display knowledge the way others show off pictures of their grandchildren: as a way of sharing what…

Study on Multiply Partnered People

Polyamory/Multi-Partnered Research Study (cross-posted; please cross-post it yourself!) Have you ever been in romantic and/or sexual relationships with two or more people at the same time? Were these relationships consensual among all parties, with each partner aware that you were…

Hi, I’m Bi

It’s National Coming Out Day. My name is Lorelei, and I’m bisexual. (Also a polyamorous queer sadistic Domme and occasional switch, but we’ll talk about all that later.) This sexual identity is deep-rooted in me. There never was a time…

Toy Fail!

Mom, that’s not the kind of toy you think it is. see more Epic Fails Thanks to Good Vibrations magazine for the laugh. Bookmark on Delicious Digg this post Recommend on Facebook share via Reddit Share with Stumblers Tumblr it…

Be Healthy. Be Happy. Use a Vibrator.

People who do are more health-conscious. I have a confession to make. I am not that crazy about vibrators. A little buzz from a vibrator can be a fun variation on my basic routine, but all the batteries in the…

Holiday Kink

I’ll be celebrating Independence Day with my gorgeous femsub. I’m planning three days of a short leash, with plenty of flogging, fisting, ass-fucking, and gradually intensifying pain play, culminating in some fun with my new scalpel. Then a night of…

The Charm School Ebook

After years out of print, The Charm School for Sissy Maids is available again–this time as an ebook! Perfect Service in Thirty Days! This erotic classic of discipline and instruction includes feminization, service, and discipline. In a unique daily-submission format,…

Brazilian Waxing!

Tell me all about it. Does it hurt? Can it be done at home? Pluses and minuses? Contraindications? Positive and negative experiences? anyplace that can’t be waxed? I’m especially interested in hearing from those whose genitalia are outies. I am,…