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BDSM Toys for Sale

Have your own private BDSM party complete with bondage, medical play, and more. I’m selling all these toys: brand new, never used, clean, and ready to give you and your partners the pleasure you deserve.

Wrist and ankle cuffs in padded leather (not locking)

Wrist and ankle cuffs in padded leather (not locking)

NEVER USED: Padded Black Leather Wrist and Ankle Cuffs

These Madame S padded leather cuffs (wrist and ankle) are designed for heavy-duty usage. Sized for average women or petite men. Comfortable, alluring, and sturdy, they will be beloved toys for years to come. Their price $159.90. $80 for both pairs

Wrist cuffs: Almost 3 inches wide. For wrists up to 10 inches. Two D-rings for attachments. Does not lock. Ankle cuffs: Almost 3 inches wide. For ankles up to 14 inches. Two D-rings for attachments. Does not lock.


Sturdy, easy-to-use hogtie clip

Sturdy, easy-to-use hogtie clip

NEVER USED: The Fastest Hogtie in the West

This sturdy device (made by Mr S) makes hogtying a snap — literally! The four leather straps on a solidly welded ring attach instantly to the D-rings on wrist and ankle cuffs for a swift, reliable hogtie. I’m sure your wicked imagination can come up with other uses. Price tag says $34.95. Only $15!

Long, soft, leather bondage mitts

Long, soft, leather bondage mitts

NEVER USED: Long, Soft, Black Leather Lace-Up Bondage Mitts

What could be sexier than the classic combination of leather and steel? Designed for a slim woman or a very small man. These superlative mitts come from JT’s Stockroom, where they cost $252. This pair of unworn gloves? Just $150.

JT’s site says:

These lace-up bondage sleeves each have three large D-rings on 1½” heavy leather buckling straps for attaching any part of the arm to the body, down to the sides, behind the back, to bondage furniture or anything else you can think of.

Our gloves are special because they have an inner flap that fills any gaps between the laces, without bunching. Buckles and lacing allow gloves to expand in diameter, fitting a wide range of arm sizes with inescapable security. They are 26″ long from fingertip to the top of the sleeve.

Small/Medium Wrist – 8½” Elbow – 9″ – 12½” Bicep – 10½” – 17½” Length – 17″


Stainless steel dental gag in open position

Stainless steel dental gag in open position


NEVER USED: Stainless Steel Dental Gag

If sadistic dentists make you drool, you have to buy this luscious medical/dental fantasy toy. Six inches long, it ratchets open in increments up to 2 inches. Imagine what you can do while your sub is open-mouthed and drooling. Extreme Restraints, $24.95 (marked down from $32). Just $15.




Buy them all–a $225 value–for $175, and I’ll throw in a delightfully wicked little cane. Remember, with canes smaller means nastier. How to Buy

Email me at MsLorelei at Mistressmanual dot com. I accept credit cards via PayPal. If you live in the San Francisco Bay Area, we can probably arrange to meet somewhere. If you’re from further afield, I’ll get an estimate of shipping cost. Sorry, I cannot ship outside the USA.

I’ll update the site as often as possible to reflect whether pieces have been sold.

Come to FOGcon! We Have Perverts!

Last year FOGcon was great: the Saturday night erotic reading was the best-attended of all the author readings, and the subsequent sex radicals’ meetup was a great success. Let’s do it again.

I’ll be reading a story Saturday night at the Erotic Trio reading with my good friends Steven Schwartz and M.Christian, introduced by the grand dame of erotic ebook publishing, Jean Marie Stine. The reading is for those 18 and older.

Erotic Reading Trio Type Reading Description Reading by Lorelei Powers, M. Christian, and Steven Schwartz Location Santa Rosa Schedule Sat, 8:00–9:15 pm Panelists M.Christian, Mistress Lorelei Powers, Steven Schwartz Tweet! #EroticReadingTrio

Afterward there’s a great panel called And I Awoke And Found Myself In Prison: Sex, Science Fiction, and the Law with Ian K. Hagemann. Chaz Brenchley, M.Christian, Allison Moon, and Lori Selke. I don’t want to miss that.

So I’ve scheduled the queer/trans/kinky/poly/perverts/sex radicals meetup for 11PM in the hotel bar. I’ll have the black leather teddy bear on the table, so you’ll know which table is us. Last year the signs for the meetup caused the hotel a certain amount of consternation, and we had to take them down. This year the signs will say “YKIOK Meetup.” This meetup is for those 18 and older.

Sunday morning I’ll be on The Author’s Body panel.That promises to be a fascinating discussion.

The Author’s Body Type Program Description Unlike athletes, writers can do all their work hidden behind a screen of ink or pixels. Nevertheless, readers unconsciously approach fiction in the context of what they know or believe about the author’s gender, race, ethnicity, age, looks, orientation, and dis/ability. How does an author’s corporeal self influence the way we read the author’s words? And what happens when readers find out an author is lying? We’ll discuss such writers as Carl Brandon, James Tiptree, Jr., and the recent fake lesbian bloggers. Location Salon A/B Schedule Sun, 9:00–10:15 am Panelists M: Michele Cox. M.Christian, Mistress Lorelei Powers, Diane Williams Tweet! #TheAuthorsBody

So come to #FOGcon. Weekend memberships and day passes will both be available at the door.

First Steps in Chastity and Milking*

“To be at once under ceaseless excitation and ruthless restraint.” – Charlotte Bronte, Jane Eyre

How long does a great play session last? From mere seconds of intensity to a lifetime. Playing with women can move fluidly from orgasm to ordinary and back again; once is not nearly enough, and only the need to pee forces lesbians out of bed and back into ordinary life. In practical terms, when you’re playing with a guysub, the fun ends or at least changes when he ejaculates.

Clearly the way to extend playtime with a submissive male partner is to delay . . . and delay . . . and delay his orgasm. Minutes, hours, days, weeks, even months. Naturally orgasm denial doesn’t work on every guysub, any more than every masochist loves thud. But if you’re lucky enough to possess a guysub who becomes sweeter and more submissive the longer he is denied orgasm, you can have a great deal of fun. What a way to exercise your power: pushing him into frenzied over-stimulation while never letting him slip into orgasm.

The best way to enforce that is to use a chastity device. Male chastity devices range from simple, effective cock rings designed to be used for an hour or less to elaborate, custom-fitted locking devices designed to be worn 24/7 for indefinite periods of time. When you finally permit him to come, the process is called “milking,” since it’s usually done hands off, by using a vibrator on his cock or in his ass.

Before you invest a lot of money and time in a toy that might not work for you, start simple. Choose a cock ring and test-drive it.

Cock rings can be plain circles of rubber, silicone, or stainless steel (in various sizes); leather straps, single or multiple; or more complex battery-driven devices with nubs, anal attachments, nipple clamps, and multiple kinds of motion. One advantage of a vibrating cock ring is that you can restrain your guysub with the same toy that’s also stimulating him. Sexy and elegant.

I have adored these toys since I first bought my husband his first remote-controlled vibrating cock ring from the Adam and Eve catalogue. That’s more than a quarter-century ago, and the selection has grown vast, but I’ll always cherish the memory of that toy and that first scene.

I had him bound to the bed – spread-eagled and blindfolded. He was already hard when I slipped the cock ring onto his lovely six-inch shaft. Then I started playing with his nipples, using one hand and my teeth. With the other hand, I slid the variable-resistor control from the off position into greater and greater intensity. He started writhing and begging to come. I’ll never forget that first exciting jolt of hands-off stimulation.

Neither will you, when you take control of his cock with a cock ring.

*This post was brought to you by Adam and Eve. All opinions are mine anyway.

Reading and Kinky Meet-Up at FOGcon

I just got the schedule for my reading at FOGcon.

Saturday night, 9:30-11PM

X-rated reading

Lorelei, Steven Schwartz, and M Christian

I’ll be reading from On Display, my upcoming collection of BDSM erotica.

Afterwards, there is a meet-up/munch for perverts, queers, and sex radicals. Who’s interested?

Edited to Add: We’ll meet at 11 in the hotel bar. Over 21 only, please. I’ll have a black leather teddy bear to identify our table. Spread the word!

BDSM and Critical Theory

These books are a good start on BDSM in critical theory. Philosophy, not whacking material. Read the rest of this entry »

Ball-Busting Women in Mainstream Movies

Once in a while I need to let out my inner complete sadistic bitch. This fun compilation of ball-busting scenes is two minutes of nasty fun for me. Any male who isn’t a masochist — and some who are — will cross his legs and turn green by the 30-second mark. And yeah, I get off on that, too.

I note that the compilers did not include the scene from Jumping Jack Flash in which Whoopi Goldberg sinks her teeth into John Wood’s package. But you can’t have everything.

Genderbending in the Roaring Twenties

Masculine Women, Feminine Men

Violating Consent

But some Dom/mes aren't satisfied with mere surrender. They like to violate boundaries: push a sub to do things that are past their hard limits, do things that might be destructive or leave unwanted lasting emotional or physical damage. They like to violate consent. Read the rest of this entry »

The Homosexual Agenda Revealed!

I re-read the sentence slowly, hoping it would make more sense this time around.

Organized homosexuality, with its belief in sex-for-its-own-sake, is an important Illuminati control mechanism.

Nope, still ridiculous.

Organized homosexuality? Do they mean the Pride parades? Or the many fine LGBT organizations that fight for our basic rights to live, work, and visit our partners in the hospital? I doubt it. The tone is much more frightened — and frightening.

I won’t link to this website — Google it if you must — but it also posits that George W. Bush is secretly gay and that all world leaders belong to a pagan Jewish Satanic sex cult. That in itself would be something of a stretch, but then the site claims that the cult led us all into

Illuminism, Communism, Freemasonry, Feminism, Zionism and “sexual liberation.”

Also the Holocaust.

Illuminati bankers are harvesting the fruit of their centuries-old plot to destroy Christian Civilization and trap humanity on an eternal treadmill of greed, sex, violence, trivia and political correctness.


If queer folk are secretly controlling the world, how come we can’t get married? Why are we still targets of violence? If feminism is a worldwide conspiracy with inordinate power, why do women still earn so much less than men? If a secret cabal of socialists is in charge, how did we end up in a huge economic crisis caused by greedy capitalist bankers?

And if middle-aged white “Christian” men are so desperately disenfranchised, why isn’t the rest of the world like Berkeley?

Homosexual Agenda

A Sampling of FemDomme Erotica

A few hot FemDomme Tumblr blogs. All are completely NSFW.

Sexy and Submissive displays submissive men locked in chastity and tormented by desire.

Strapon Bugaloo shows what happens when a women gets a chance to ram her strapon into a submissive male’s willing ass.

Skimble Place is an amazing collection of hot FemDomme images. Very highly recommended.

Diary of a Male Submissive is mostly a collection of male submission photos, with occasional quotes and other notes. Hot!

Bihappy shares pictures of enslaved males and cruel Mistresses, but also other images of women in various erotic poses.