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Come to FOGcon! We Have Perverts!
Author Lorelei
Last year FOGcon was great: the Saturday night erotic reading was the best-attended of all the author readings, and the subsequent sex radicals’ meetup was a great success. Let’s do it again.
I’ll be reading a story Saturday night at the Erotic Trio reading with my good friends Steven Schwartz and M.Christian, introduced by the grand dame of erotic ebook publishing, Jean Marie Stine. The reading is for those 18 and older.
Erotic Reading Trio Type Reading Description Reading by Lorelei Powers, M. Christian, and Steven Schwartz Location Santa Rosa Schedule Sat, 8:00–9:15 pm Panelists M.Christian, Mistress Lorelei Powers, Steven Schwartz Tweet! #EroticReadingTrio
Afterward there’s a great panel called And I Awoke And Found Myself In Prison: Sex, Science Fiction, and the Law with Ian K. Hagemann. Chaz Brenchley, M.Christian, Allison Moon, and Lori Selke. I don’t want to miss that.
So I’ve scheduled the queer/trans/kinky/poly/perverts/sex radicals meetup for 11PM in the hotel bar. I’ll have the black leather teddy bear on the table, so you’ll know which table is us. Last year the signs for the meetup caused the hotel a certain amount of consternation, and we had to take them down. This year the signs will say “YKIOK Meetup.” This meetup is for those 18 and older.
Sunday morning I’ll be on The Author’s Body panel.That promises to be a fascinating discussion.
The Author’s Body Type Program Description Unlike athletes, writers can do all their work hidden behind a screen of ink or pixels. Nevertheless, readers unconsciously approach fiction in the context of what they know or believe about the author’s gender, race, ethnicity, age, looks, orientation, and dis/ability. How does an author’s corporeal self influence the way we read the author’s words? And what happens when readers find out an author is lying? We’ll discuss such writers as Carl Brandon, James Tiptree, Jr., and the recent fake lesbian bloggers. Location Salon A/B Schedule Sun, 9:00–10:15 am Panelists M: Michele Cox. M.Christian, Mistress Lorelei Powers, Diane Williams Tweet! #TheAuthorsBody
So come to #FOGcon. Weekend memberships and day passes will both be available at the door.
First Steps in Chastity and Milking*
Author Lorelei
“To be at once under ceaseless excitation and ruthless restraint.” – Charlotte Bronte, Jane Eyre
How long does a great play session last? From mere seconds of intensity to a lifetime. Playing with women can move fluidly from orgasm to ordinary and back again; once is not nearly enough, and only the need to pee forces lesbians out of bed and back into ordinary life. In practical terms, when you’re playing with a guysub, the fun ends or at least changes when he ejaculates.
Clearly the way to extend playtime with a submissive male partner is to delay . . . and delay . . . and delay his orgasm. Minutes, hours, days, weeks, even months. Naturally orgasm denial doesn’t work on every guysub, any more than every masochist loves thud. But if you’re lucky enough to possess a guysub who becomes sweeter and more submissive the longer he is denied orgasm, you can have a great deal of fun. What a way to exercise your power: pushing him into frenzied over-stimulation while never letting him slip into orgasm.
The best way to enforce that is to use a chastity device. Male chastity devices range from simple, effective cock rings designed to be used for an hour or less to elaborate, custom-fitted locking devices designed to be worn 24/7 for indefinite periods of time. When you finally permit him to come, the process is called “milking,” since it’s usually done hands off, by using a vibrator on his cock or in his ass.
Before you invest a lot of money and time in a toy that might not work for you, start simple. Choose a cock ring and test-drive it.
Cock rings can be plain circles of rubber, silicone, or stainless steel (in various sizes); leather straps, single or multiple; or more complex battery-driven devices with nubs, anal attachments, nipple clamps, and multiple kinds of motion. One advantage of a vibrating cock ring is that you can restrain your guysub with the same toy that’s also stimulating him. Sexy and elegant.
I have adored these toys since I first bought my husband his first remote-controlled vibrating cock ring from the Adam and Eve catalogue. That’s more than a quarter-century ago, and the selection has grown vast, but I’ll always cherish the memory of that toy and that first scene.
I had him bound to the bed – spread-eagled and blindfolded. He was already hard when I slipped the cock ring onto his lovely six-inch shaft. Then I started playing with his nipples, using one hand and my teeth. With the other hand, I slid the variable-resistor control from the off position into greater and greater intensity. He started writhing and begging to come. I’ll never forget that first exciting jolt of hands-off stimulation.
Neither will you, when you take control of his cock with a cock ring.
*This post was brought to you by Adam and Eve. All opinions are mine anyway.
Reading and Kinky Meet-Up at FOGcon
Author Lorelei
I just got the schedule for my reading at FOGcon.
Saturday night, 9:30-11PM
X-rated reading
Lorelei, Steven Schwartz, and M Christian
I’ll be reading from On Display, my upcoming collection of BDSM erotica.
Afterwards, there is a meet-up/munch for perverts, queers, and sex radicals. Who’s interested?
Edited to Add: We’ll meet at 11 in the hotel bar. Over 21 only, please. I’ll have a black leather teddy bear to identify our table. Spread the word!
BDSM and Critical Theory
Author Lorelei
Ball-Busting Women in Mainstream Movies
Author Lorelei
Once in a while I need to let out my inner complete sadistic bitch. This fun compilation of ball-busting scenes is two minutes of nasty fun for me. Any male who isn’t a masochist — and some who are — will cross his legs and turn green by the 30-second mark. And yeah, I get off on that, too.
I note that the compilers did not include the scene from Jumping Jack Flash in which Whoopi Goldberg sinks her teeth into John Wood’s package. But you can’t have everything.
Violating Consent
Author Lorelei
The Homosexual Agenda Revealed!
Author Lorelei
I re-read the sentence slowly, hoping it would make more sense this time around.
Organized homosexuality, with its belief in sex-for-its-own-sake, is an important Illuminati control mechanism.
Nope, still ridiculous.
Organized homosexuality? Do they mean the Pride parades? Or the many fine LGBT organizations that fight for our basic rights to live, work, and visit our partners in the hospital? I doubt it. The tone is much more frightened — and frightening.
I won’t link to this website — Google it if you must — but it also posits that George W. Bush is secretly gay and that all world leaders belong to a pagan Jewish Satanic sex cult. That in itself would be something of a stretch, but then the site claims that the cult led us all into
Illuminism, Communism, Freemasonry, Feminism, Zionism and “sexual liberation.”
Also the Holocaust.
Illuminati bankers are harvesting the fruit of their centuries-old plot to destroy Christian Civilization and trap humanity on an eternal treadmill of greed, sex, violence, trivia and political correctness.
Riiiiiight.
If queer folk are secretly controlling the world, how come we can’t get married? Why are we still targets of violence? If feminism is a worldwide conspiracy with inordinate power, why do women still earn so much less than men? If a secret cabal of socialists is in charge, how did we end up in a huge economic crisis caused by greedy capitalist bankers?
And if middle-aged white “Christian” men are so desperately disenfranchised, why isn’t the rest of the world like Berkeley?
A Sampling of FemDomme Erotica
Author Lorelei
A few hot FemDomme Tumblr blogs. All are completely NSFW.
Sexy and Submissive displays submissive men locked in chastity and tormented by desire.
Strapon Bugaloo shows what happens when a women gets a chance to ram her strapon into a submissive male’s willing ass.
Skimble Place is an amazing collection of hot FemDomme images. Very highly recommended.
Diary of a Male Submissive is mostly a collection of male submission photos, with occasional quotes and other notes. Hot!
Bihappy shares pictures of enslaved males and cruel Mistresses, but also other images of women in various erotic poses.
The Dread Passion of Cthulhu
Author Lorelei
Is it coincidence? Is it Fate? Is it my mermaid icon? Is it some nameless, hideous, wholly alien Being from beyond the stars, the mere contemplation of which drives the thinker into the squamous depths of madness?
Is it just that I got lost last summer in Providence, Rhode Island, home of H. P. Lovecraft? Or have the Great Old Ones noticed I play Arkham Horror?
Today we have multiple announcements that suggest the Elder Gods may be coming back, or at least getting more sex than they used to. Maybe it’s all the Viagra in the water.
1. Download a free ebook of all Lovecraft’s original stories. The blog post is fascinating, too. Not actually sex, although the name “Love” “Craft” has a certain resonance.
2. My good friend Molly Mounds at Scary Sextoy Friday features a matching butt-plug and ball-gag set so terrifying that I may never recover my reason. Yes, they’re shaped like offspring of the Elder Gods. Tentacles and all.
3. The estimable Cecilia Tan issued a call for submissions for an anthology titled Whispers in Darkness: Lovecraftian Erotica. I am so tempted by this; it’s a challenge to write something both Lovecraftian and consensually erotic, but I bet the stories that get in will be very hot indeed. (This is Circlet Press, after all. Their publications are always good.)
Mistress Lorelei is not an aficionado of tentacle porn, although she holds its originator in very high regard: Hokusai, the great Japanese artist whose iconic work may be The Great Wave. Certainly The Dream of the Fisherman’s Wife is a fascinating image. But my sexual taste is, shall we say, fairly specialized, and the squid I like in bed with me is the kind that’s a small, stingy, rubbery flogger, ideal for use on nipples and balls.
As for the squid-like butt-plug and ball-gag set, that kink is OK. I’m sure the makers and users don’t grudge me my fish hooks, even if none of them actually want a barbed hook to pierce their glans. A siren has to have her fun, after all.
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The Dream of the Fisherman’s Wife by Hokusai
Hokusai’s The Great Wave